Thursday, January 30, 2014

Wedding Budget: Seven Tips to Help You Save

When planning a wedding, staying within budget can be a difficult task. Between the venue, the flowers, the dress, the photographer, the videographer, the invitations, and a host of additional elements—money hastily dwindles.

So how, you ask, is it possible to save? There are always ways to save, big or small, that make a difference. Explore the tips below and glean from the advice of savvy brides.

1. Ditch the Wedding Favors and Donate to Charity
Instead of spending money on wedding favors, make a donation in honor of your guests to a charity or organization of choice. This will eliminate money spent on packaging and ordering individual take-home favors.

Bride Laura Johnson opted for the donation and says, “To me, saving money means giving to a good cause instead of spending on favors that people don’t need.”

2. “Double Dip” on Décor
Order flower arrangements that can be used at both your ceremony and reception. Not only will consistent décor establish a steady theme and exude an effortless ambiance throughout, it will also save you a hefty wad of cash.

3. Cater Your Reception
Wedding food options can be limited and pricey. Consider catering your reception! A promising alternative, catering will expose you to greater food variety and could save you money per person.

Recently wed bride, Kate Edwards, catered In-N-Out at her wedding. Edwards says about her and then fiancé, “We chose In-N-Out because we love it AND because it saved money.”

In addition to the burgers, “We got another place to do the sides for super cheap- like $2 a person for really tasty salad and mac & cheese,” shares Edwards.

Photo Courtesy of Kate Edwards

4. Go with Serving Stations
When deciding on how much to budget for your reception, factor in the kind of meal and serving method. Dinner will typically be most expensive next to lunch then breakfast and a sit down meal will cost more than serving stations.

“I had a brunch reception,” says recent bride Karley Kiker, “and the fact that we did serving stations rather than a sit down dinner certainly saved some money!”

Photo Courtesy of Suggs Photography


5. Redefine the Party: Offer a Refreshment Reception
Substitute a meal reception with a social party complete with sweets and drinks.
Ideal for weddings with an extensive guest list, a refreshment reception will save you a fortune on food. 

With a grand total of 450 guests in attendance, bride Rebecca Henry was happy she opted for the refreshment reception. “We had a family dinner at my parents’ house after the wedding,” Henry explains, “every little bit you save means more for your honeymoon, house and future together.”

Photo Courtesy of Rebecca Henry 


6. Research Non-Traditional Locations
Banquet halls, country clubs and resorts will not only be pricey, but could also be booked up to years in advance. Consider planning your wedding at a public park or other nonconventional locations where minimal fees apply. Think outside the box! It’s your special day, make it memorable without breaking the bank.

7. Utilize Your Connections
Chances are you, a family member or a friend know someone with exceptional handwriting or calligraphy skills. Utilize their talent! It will save money on addressing envelopes—even if they charge you, it won’t compare to professional costs.


Tuesday, January 21, 2014

Beauty in Perspective

Laura Johnson
Song of Solomon 4:7 says "You are altogether beautiful my love; there is no flaw in you." We have been told we are beautifully perfect, so why don't we always believe it? 

I'm not saying we all look like natural supermodels. It seems like we can never truly have it all. In fact, I argue even the supermodels find imperfections with themselves. It's natural to find the little flaws in our physical appearance when we are constantly looking in mirrors and comparing ourselves to others in today's modern world.

As for me, I ignore the flaws. Do I know they are there? Sure. Do I consider them imperfections? No. I believe God ultimately constructed the most beautiful version of myself that he could. I have always felt one of the best ways to honor our parents is to look at ourselves in the mirror and see the weavings of our ancestors, in all the beautiful parts and all the 'imperfections', and love ourselves. Think of all the marriages and miracles it took for you to be created!

The girls in the magazines are gorgeous - but I wouldn't trade myself in for anything different. I'll take my wide hips - it reminds me that I was made to become a mom one day. I'll take the ethnic nose - it alludes to the uniqueness of my heritage. I'll take the occasional skin imperfections - if this is the worst I have to deal with, I am one blessed girl.

To me, beauty is a smile, a sense of contentment, and an all-knowing confidence that you look exactly as God intended. It's not so much about seeing and thinking you are perfect, but being thankful for what you have and loving the 'imperfections' (and hey, thanks God for my eyes, I really like them.) 

When you accept and love who you are, so many worries, comparisons, and insecurities just fade away. You are truly beautiful - and deserve to believe it.

Thursday, January 9, 2014

The Husband List

Are you one of those girls who has a running list of what you want your future husband to be like?

I am.

Although we are all created differently and seek to be completed in different ways, the article The Husband List:12 Non-Negotiables brings up so valuable points of truth that may inspire you to jot down a few more items.


Check it out!


Tuesday, January 7, 2014

2014 Resolutions

At the start of 2013, I created a prayer board to help me visualize how God works in my life and in the life of those I pray for. Gazing at the prayer board now, after a year has passed, I see not only a heap of answered prayers but also God’s faithfulness in every yes, no and even not now.

2013...New Beginnings, Redemptions and Pursuing God. 

Entering into 2013, there were two things my heart strongly desired:

  • Getting my love life back on track by re-entering into a committed relationship with my ex-boyfriend.

  • Securing a job with a public relations firm and moving out to be on my own.

Instead, 2013 unfolded to be a year in which

  • God rekindled His relationship with me setting my love life back on track spiritually. He has taught me to trust His ways and is asking me to be patient- for the right earthly relationship will flourish in its own time.

  • God provided me a full-time job in marketing, close to home. Although completely opposite of what I was hoping, the job opportunity I had this past year humbled me, challenged me and slowly helped me grow personally and professionally. Living at home was also a huge blessing because it allowed me to save money, be close to family and reconnect with my home church community from which I had been absent while at school. I know someday the time will come to uproot and leave, but God’s not finished with where he has currently planted me.

There are more ways in which God has worked in my life in 2013. He helped me successfully launch this blog, which in turn has landed me the opportunity to write for a couple different bridal magazines. I’m excited to pursue a new career opportunity in the wedding industry and take time to nurture and grow this blog in the new year ahead. I do not know where this road will lead (there are always risks that come with chasing a bunny trail) but it's looking forward into the unknown that makes me rely on God and in His care is where I want to be.

My desire is that 2014 will be a year of Action, Hope and Unquestionable Trust in God.

I resolve to…

Take action in becoming a better ambassador for Christ and be a good steward of His provisions.

Hope for the best in all circumstances and that from here, things can only get better.

Have unquestionable trust in God and his greater plan.

Ephesians 3:20-21 “Now to Him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen.”

I serve a God who can rock your world. If you haven’t already done so, give him the chance.

Happy New Year!